Flight Attendant Stops Passengers From Honoring Fallen Soldier With National Anthem

Pamela Gaudry said she was ashamed she didn't stand up to attendant, but her plea to Americans and their response overwhelmed her

Pamela Gaudry said she had a spontaneous idea as she was sitting in her seat on a Delta airlines Oct. 14 flight when it was announced a deceased U.S. soldier was on board.

There had been an announcement that fallen soldier Army Staff Sgt. Dustin Wright would be leaving the plane first.

Gaudry said she went around and asked every passenger if they would sing the national anthem as the casket was removed from the plane.

Gaudry said that most people were thrilled at the idea. One woman even cried in support of the gesture.

But before the passengers could sing, a flight attendant approached Gaudry and told her that singing the national anthem was against Delta’s policy.

When Gaudry said she refused to tell all the other passengers the singing was called off, she said an announcement was made.

Later, the flight attendant told Gaudry that the flight from Philadelphia to Atlanta had people from other countries who told the flight attendant they weren’t comfortable hearing the U.S. national anthem.

The passengers sat in silence as the casket containing Sgt. Wright was removed.

In a six-minute video afterwards in which Gaudry choked up with tears, she explained the shame she felt for backing down.

“I just did the most uncourageous thing in my life today, and I’m sharing it,” Gaudry said into the camera. “I hope somehow it gets to people all around, even the President.”

Gaudry explained what happened, and as the wife of a deceased Navy captain, lamented her alleged lack of courage.

“I didn’t know what would happen to me if I started to sing,” Gaudry said in the post-flight video. “I’m humiliated by my lack of courage to sing the national anthem on my own country on American soil, with a deceased soldier on the plane.

I wish I could have been an example for my children. I’m glad my former husband is deceased. He would have been profoundly disappointed in me.”

“Hopefully this will get shared around the country. And people will know that it is a policy of Delta to not be able to sing the national anthem on one of their planes,” she said.

Gaudry ended with: “All we can do is pray that this thing doesn’t continue to happen.”

Gaudry’s prayers were answered.

Gaudry’s video had more than 2.3 million views in the three days since it was posted Oct. 14.

The mainstream media started picking up her story nationwide, unable to ignore the video had gone viral.

Delta issued a statement obtained by The Hill, which said, "The respectful ceremony of the Delta Honor Guard is one symbol of Delta’s pledge to the men and women of the armed forces, and it represents our broad commitment to our veterans and active-duty service members. Delta does not have a policy regarding the national anthem. We have reached out to the customer and are looking into this situation."

In a follow-up post Oct. 15, she said Delta contacted her and said it was not their policy.

“Delta has apologized to me. Profusely. I accept,” Gaudry said.

And Gaudry said she wanted to thank everyone for their support.

Comments
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angryAmerican
angryAmerican

That bitch attendant better have been fired!

Jocan
Jocan

I'm Canadian and I would've sung the American National Anthem honouring a fallen hero.

EthanGreaser
EthanGreaser

If I was a tourist, I would be proud to here, people honoring their fallen hero, so I knew my CA$H that i had spent went to a good cause.

ProUSA
ProUSA

Delta should have disciplined the flight attendant. She was making up her own rules and enforcing her own beliefs on the passengers. This was an American flight, on American soil, carrying an American service man who gave the ultimate sacrifice. Anyone who is offended by hearing the American National Anthem can cover their ears, then switch to an international flight and leave.

ProGODProUSA
ProGODProUSA

I would have asked the attendant, "Show me where it says that in your policy." Passengers on an airline are to follow the guidelines that apply to them, but they are not employees of the airline. I can't carry a tune in a bucket, but I would have started singing anyway! And the supposed passengers who were not American - they don't have to sing and they could stick their fingers in their ears or wear the headphones that airlines distribute for movie watching. Are we not still Americans and living in America? 🗽

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